Men and women

Men and women

Have you ever heard the term men and women can’t be friends? I am sure you have. This argument has bothered me for years now. Many people think that it is possible, when in reality it is not. I believe men and women cannot be friends without anything happening between them. There is no such thing as a platonic relationship because whether it is now, or in the future something is bound to happen. At first I believed that it was possible to have a guy as a best friend, until I started dating him. This threw my theory right out the window. Usually, it is the guy who always wants more from the girl rather than friendship. The way guys are now a days, you can ask a group of guys how many female friends they have that they haven’t slept with, hooked up with or do not want to do anything with the chances of finding one are slim. I met my ex boyfriend in high school. He was my best friend for four years before we started dating. The more time I spent with him, the more I wanted to be with him. Of course I could not tell him any of this, because that’s grounds for ruining the friendship. Especially if he just wants to be friends, which of course that’s all he wanted at first. I knew if anything were to happen, in the end we would not end up going back to the way it was in the beginning. But me being so na?Ÿ??ve and anxious, took that risk. After we dated for some time, the breakup was horrible which caused us not to be as close as we were. After dating your best friend there is no way possible to go back to being best friends. There is always going to be one that gets jealous or insecure. Still to this day, we talk occasionally but it is no where near as much as we used to. Even if I call his phone, his current girl friend refuses to let him talk to me because of our past together. Is this fair? No of course not which just goes to show that she even knows men and women cannot be friends. …


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